Is it bad that I don't want to give my boyfriend head, because I've yet to have an orgasm?

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I've teased him with head a couple times, but I've never gone all in, because I feel like I'd be giving my all and only getting half back.  I also just want him to be more intimate and do more to get me to finally orgasm.

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No, because if you don’t want to give head, then just don’t. I’ve had selfish lovers and they expect the most but act so lost when it comes to taking me there.

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Yeah because that’s really not the way to go about fixing problems. Why not talk to him and express your wants?

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Have you tried talking to him?

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Maybe you should talk to him and let him know what to do to get you to that point. Some guys don’t know how to. I taught my husband where to go and I get one every time we are intimate. When we first started dating yeah the sex was nice but after I actually talked to him our sex life changed and it’s amazing now. Don’t punish him just because he doesn’t know how to get you to orgasm. If you don’t want to give him head at all then don’t but not because he’s clueless.

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1. Talk to him. 2. My husband has a rule: "My wife comes first." Literally. --> Tell him to focus on your clitoris before you focus on his penis.

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No, especially if you’ve talked to him about it.
I need to have this discussion too...it all feels good but he stops before I get there because “he’s tired”, but I don’t stop...so we gotta figure something out for sure. 
If you haven’t talked, I would talk to him first. But you don’t have to do anything you don’t feel like you want to do, in any case. Whatever the reason is.

Is it bad that I don't want to give my boyfriend head, because I've yet to have an orgasm?

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