Relationship Troubles

Me and my bf have been together for over 3 months and every month we seem to be arguing and it doesn’t go well.

We live in different towns and we miss each other a lot and we thought moving in together would be a great idea we both spoke to our parents about it and they said it’s too soon but it’s up to you. And everything was fine and we we’re going to do it. But after a while my mum kept hinting saying what if you can’t afford it and stuff and saying it continuously. So I came to realisation that maybe it’s not a good idea as I wanted to travel and buy a car and I don’t think I’d be able to when living with him and also my job I haven’t started that long ago so it’s abit awkward if I left.

He said at the start if there was any delays like my mum didn’t want me to go or I preferred staying then he’d be fine but when it came to me telling him he got upset and really annoyed which wasn’t what I expected... he’s saying that I chose the travelling over him and I said it’ll be better finically for both of us. And my mum didn’t want me to go anyway. We argued about it for 5 days. And it came to the point that he was blaming on me for everything, so it’s put me off.

What are your thoughts?