please help! need advice asap...

So I'm at a delema right now and I could really use some honest opinions and input from outside perspectives. ask if u have questions... So basically.. I realized I still love my husband but I'm not IN love.. there is a difference apparently... But idk what to do. I care about his well being and I don't want anything to happen to him.. But at the same time.. like I don't want to be with him anymore. he's holding me back!! what in the bloody he'll do I do?! I als9 don't want to break his heart.. only person in his life anymore besides me is his best friend.. And our motives are different. And he seems not to care about what I want anymore . he will consider them and talk all high and mighty like he will include what I want, but in the end it's only ever what he wants and he keeps trying to pull me from my friends and family and I don't want to be without my friends and family! And I don't want to be more than 2 or 3 hours away!! but he seems to not think it's a big deal and even said he doesn't want me over at my mom's alot and hey my mom isn't a bad person! And p.s... his family hates me.. But they have never liked anyone he's been with so idk wtf... we have been together for 6 years... married for a most 2 and idk I just don't think I can do this anymore but really want some direction and help from u ladies.. thanks