just venting ...

Becky

so I absolutely LOVE my mother-in-law. she's the sweetest woman ever and I couldn't have asked for a better grandmother to our 18 month old son and soon to be little girl. HOWEVER, the woman keeps making me feel fat. lol I know she doesn't mean to come across that way, but because this is my second pregnancy I have if course popped out alot sooner than the first time around. my weight is on the same pace as it was last time (currently 30 weeks, 17 lb weight gain, all belly) but despite telling her that I keep getting comments every time we see each other from her like "dang she's gonna be a big baby isn't she?" "she's a pig!" "she's not missing a meal huh?!". when I tell her my weight is the same as last time she says "REALLY???"... I know she doesn't mean to say that I have gotten big myself and that she's only referring to my belly but it doesn't make a pregnant woman feel good! ugh there should be a law against commenting on a woman's size! lol thanks for letting me vent ladies!