Okay folks. I’m at a loss. Haven’t told her I’m pregnant yet because the woman is literally insane. She lives in California and we live in Arizona. In the last four months, she’s claimed her son (the father to be) and I are . . .

1. Selling drugs

2. Stealing money from people

3. I’m convincing him to isolate himself

4. I want to see him fail in life

5. I Have made up my entire life story

6. Either one or both of us have warrants out for our arrest

None of this is true at all. Both of us are working hard and he’s planning to be an EMT where as I’m not sure what i want to finish my schooling in. These claims are insane. She also showed up at our front door saying it smelled like weed, that she hired a personal investigator to investigate me and when I tried to be nice and show her our apartment she told me casually that she knows what it looks like and what it costs because she looked it up online. She also now sends Facebook messages, holidays cards and religious trinkets to my moms house! We don’t do any drugs and I’m not even in contact with my mom. What do I do? If she finds out I’m pregnant she’ll never leave us alone! She’s going to show up and drive me insane and totally disregard any boundaries I give her or any thoughts or feelings I have. I don’t want this woman around my baby. But she’s the grandma. Help!!!!