Advice

Maybe this isn’t the right group.

But my ex bf and I have been broke up for over a year. We have a 4 year old son together. My ex and son currently live with his mother but is buying her house soon. Our son starts preschool in the town we both live in this fall.

But anyways, my ex has been seeing this women, who is STILL married but separated. He has been seeing her for a few months and is talking about moving in with her. I don’t like the idea, but only problem is she lives a half hour away which is not in our school district. I told him I will not be driving 30 minutes to pick up and drop off our son. He should be doing what’s best for the child, not him.

Would you just let this go? Or try and do something about it?

I don’t want Child support, money or anything. I want him to do what is right. Why move away to live with someone you’ve been seeing a short time just cause it’s better for your relationship... he has a job, home here. I do not have feelings for him at all, I am seeing someone now and has nothing to do with that.

I also do want to add, the days he’s supposed to have him, he usually doesn’t. Hasn’t paid rent or bought groceries in the past year since he’s been living with his mom since we broke up.