He’s either cheating or about to propose.... and I can’t tell which one.

We’re great. We’re a loving couple and there’s nothing we do besides love each other. We’ve been together three years in May and we’re both exciting to celebrate.

But.

Lately, for the past (about) 2.5/3 months he’s:

1. Been working a lot of overtime (I’m talking 13,14,15 hour shifts nearly every day) and this leads me to believe that he could be somewhere else besides work.

2. He won’t let me see his phone. We’ve never had problems with trust when it comes to our phones but he won’t let me use it. I asked him to borrow his phone one time when his friends were over to call mine since i lost it and he gets quick defensive and grabs his phone. “no I’ll call it” and one time I set his wallpaper to a close up of my nipple (we do weird shit like that to joke around) and he started questioning how I got in his phone. I told him he told me his password and he was like “oh yeah I forgot”

3. We have sex 1-2 times a week. We used to fuck like bunnies. Granted, we’ve been together long enough to where we don’t have to have sex all the time.

4. He doesn’t want me to go to the store with him. He’ll say “I’m going here” and I’ll ask if he wants me to come and he’s quick to say no.

These are all cases where he could either be cheating or about to propose.

He told me he has something exciting planned for our anniversary but won’t tell me what it is which makes me think he’s about to propose.

But I don’t know. I’m panicking.