First Breakup...confused/heartbroken...does he want to get back together??
So I had been with my bf since January. I thought things were good- I was falling in love with him and everything. He started being really distant about 2 weeks ago. One convo in particular, he said he had a lot on his mind, and I asked him what so maybe I could help him through it, and he never answered. I told him how I had reached out to volunteer in the kids ministry of his campus of our church(we’re both Christian) and he seemed really opposed to the idea. He mentioned having stuff on his mind again, and I asked him what and he said I’d “find out soon”.
Flash forward to this past Saturday. He made sure I was coming to church and said he “wanted to talk”. Sounds kind of scary but ok. I get there and wait in the lobby with his BFF. She says he’s been acting really weird all day claiming stomach problems. He comes out of the bathroom, and pulls me aside. Just gets right to it. He says “I think you’re so sweet, and beautiful, and amazing, but I don’t think we should date anymore”. I’m kind of quiet... he asks if I’m okay, but then eventually he to leave because his friend was his ride. He texts me saying that “It wasnt that you weren't good enough no body can ever say that I just don't think me and you were meant to be and God is calling to me to be single for awhile”.... I just gather myself so I can drive home
I get home, and he immediately tries to video chat me through Facebook messenger, then proceeds to message me like he hadn’t just dumped me an hour ago. I played along because I wanted to see if he would tak about the real reason we broke up(because his reason was honestly bs, even though he didn’t give a different one...I feel like it’s all my fault) He doesn’t.
Sunday my family was moving. But id posted Snapchat stories(ie taylor Swift lyrics,etc) on my story and he saw them. And it would tell me he’s typing, or I’d log onto Messenger to talk to my long distance friends, and I’d see typing bubbles on his when he was active. But nothing. And so far nothing today.
Idk what to do.... he’s acting like he doesn’t even care. Like I didn’t mean anything to him, when just three weeks ago he was joking about what we’d name our kids and which of our friends would get too crazy at our wedding. Like he didn’t sit there praying over/with me at church, saying it was me and him forever....I’m dying to talk to him. I want to find out the real reason behind this. I want to work out whatever he thought was so wrong that he left.....I still have this gut feeling we’ll get back together. We just seemed so perfect together. Does him messaging or trying to mean he wants to get back together?? Or should I just forget it?
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