Abstinence. Relationships.

Alright. Million dollar question. (I wish) I am wanting to know personal views on withholding sex until marriage. Personally it’s a challenge And in my case I have had too many failed situationships to where I’m thinking that’s where I’ve been going wrong all along(I’m sure there are other factors). What would be you’re advice to an individual like me who struggles withholding? In What other ways do you enjoy your partner and grow with your partner and hold off on the sex. I’m wanting to change the poor direction this “potential” relationship has taken to focus more on learning & communicating with each other and enjoying each other instead of feeling on each other. IF that’s possible at this point.