Sex??????? UPDATE

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My husband and I have separated. He wants time to work things out and I want a divorce because I feel like they will never work out BUT the other part of me has slight hope especially because we have a 2mnth old at home. And a single unit as a family is of extreme importance to me. Yes I understand divorced families work out great at times, but my heart wants us all together. Anyway, we clearly arent being intimate right now. 9 months of hardly any sex & then to wait the 6 weeks after birth to then having us separate = NO SEX FOR A VERY LONG TIME  😔 
I want to be intimate to see if we still have that spark/ I need some action in my life. If I ask him, he will clearly say yes cus the guy has needs but will it make me seem weak or like I want him back if I do ask? I don't want him thinking that I want things to work out because he is the one that has to make the effort not me.
Should I ask? 🤔🤔🤔
UPDATE: We did it.....

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I feel like that’s just asking for a whole other can of worms to be opened..

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I mean if you want to do it, just do it! Maybe you could tell him ahead of time that you've been wondering if the spark is still there and see what he thinks. Personally I believe sex is very important to a relationship, so if there is anything left to salvage maybe you'll find it through being intimate. (Sometimes it's easier to just let the feeling come to you. Sex is a good way to get your feelings out in the open without too many words)

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I don’t think it’s a bad idea at all. Sex is a very important part of a relationship. It may completely change your mind in wanting it to work out. Y’all could have some major chemistry, especially since it’s been so long. Give it a go.

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I mean like don’t straight up say “can we have sex” but invite him over and see where things go and if y’all end up doing it then see if there’s the spark you’re looking for and if there is try to work on the two of you getting back together because I totally disagree on the part where you said you don’t have to try at all he should be making and effort to work it out not you. I feel as if its a mutual bind so you guys both work towards it ❗️

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