I have to beg my husband to talk to me for like TEN MINUTES at night before bed. All I want is to focus on each other before bed. To connect. For literally no more than 10 minutes. Not asking for much, just ten damn minutes. He pretty much refuses. He can easily wake up in the middle of the night for sex though so I’ll be refusing that the next time 🙃 such a stupid situation to be in to have to beg your husband for a better connection. He should WANT the same. He SHOULD make the effort and I shouldn’t have to ask.