I'm a ftm of twins who are toddlers. I still don't seem to fit in with other ftm's of singleton babies. Honestly, I feel like having twins automatically puts me in the "second time mom" category from the start, and especially now that I've been raising two all along. Yet friends who've had two kids consecutively see me as a first time mom. I'm not in their club 😑 I'm somewhere in between and just don't fit in anywhere.

What are your perspectives?

Edit: yep, I'm in a multiples circle that meets once a month, but the majority of my friends are singleton parents or parents of consecutive kids.

Anyone???