I don’t know how to put this

So today I showed my boyfriend a pair of underwear I had and ask him “I don’t think you seen these before.” His replay was “ I have just I haven’t seen them in awhile, and also where not doing it today or for awhile.” ( meaning sex)

My replay was “ oh okay I wasn’t even talking about that but k.” Him “ the reason why I say that is I feel like am being pressured and it’s not you making me saying hey lets do it just yeah my mind is saying that to me.”

Umm we haven’t done sex in like 3 months now and usually we have sex before I have my periods cuz it’s easies my cramps before hand and it helps. But since we’ve haven’t done it for so long me cramps hurt and my blood it’s a lot darker and I know it’s nuthing bad. It’s usually normal. I’ve checked and talked my doctor it’s fine and all. And now lately my body feels like it just shutting down. Am usually really happy and energetic and wanting to do things but lately am not that am having to force myself to do so and all.

Am not pregnant or anything I’ve token test and all. Just am confused.