Long cycle

Just having a little vent here !! Sorry ladies just need to get it of my chest !! I have super long cycles 40 days ++ sometimes have been 8 weeks between periods !! have had ultrasounds to check everything out and everything is all good so no conditions just super long cycles problem is I take urine ovulation test just about everyday and we bd every 2nd day just in case but it’s sooooo long to pinpoint ovulation !! !!! We want a baby so much and it feels like months and months pass and still negatives !! I was a little at ease to see everything is ok but still just getting me down that we have to go for so long between periods !! Feels like it’s wearing my hubby and I out 😞😞