I need your opinion on this one...

Been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I’m 41, he’s 40. We both have kids from a previous relationship. So we are grown ups. Adult, mature people. So I thought.

Before I met my bf I had a friend. A guy. Nothing ever happened. Sure, this friend went on to tell me he had feelings for me, but I was already dating ( for about a month or so ) and we just parted ways. That’s it. That was that. End of story.

It would be so, if wasn’t for my bf to just keep getting extremely jealous of this guy. He asked me to block him, delete him, forget him, unfriend him. I did.

This friend is a good guy who got the message. He’s an airline pilot and he has several Instagram accounts. So sometimes he pops here and there under different names. I just brush it off.

The only time in the past year he contacted me, was during New Years. He wrote:

Happy new year Brazil beauty ( I’m from Brazil )

I REPLIED HAPPY 2018.

THAT. WAS. ALL.

Well. My bf flipped.

Mind you now; last year i found out he was planning on meeting up some girl for some beers. He only canceled when I found out and when he “ guessed she might want something else”

He never unfriended her on Facebook.

He also has his ex. Even though he claims she was awful to him.

I really don’t care. I don’t. Come on. We’re grown ups. Fuck social media. Who cares?

I take care of this guy. I’m good to him and I kiss the floor he walks on.

I clean, I cook, I take care of him. I’m nice to his family and go out of my way to help them.

Last week I used 1500 € for a surprise trip to Amsterdam.

Mind you: this money will be missed. It was part of a settlement I got from my insurance for being raped last year by a monster. (Not my bf, of course )

Fast forward today: we’re in the car, he asked me if I’m friends with this guy again. I said no. And THAT was the truth.

Turns out my friend probably unblocked me, or used another account without is name or an account of which he changed his photo and, snoopy little bf of mine, saw it. And he simply blew up. Called me a liar in front of his daughter. Got mad. Told me he “ can’t be with a liar “.

Broke my heart into pieces. I don’t know how that guy ended up on my instagram again. I have an open account because of my gardening hobby.

I never had anything with that guy.

Why is my ex calling me names?

HOW CAN SOMEONE BLAME A PERSON FOR SOMETHING SOMEONE ELSE DID?

I’m not very savvy around Instagram and I don’t know what happen if you block / unblock friend / unfriend someone.

I think my bf is over reacting.

I have been crying all afternoon.

I don’t go out, i dont party, I’m always home, I’m always available to him, I take care of him. But he said all I do don’t matter if I’m not honest.

I did not lie.

I’m broken. 😓