Gender Disappointment

I am writing this to see if anyone else is feeling this way. We tried for a boy, have our hearts set on a boy, have been thinking it’s a boy, have boy names picked out.... and found out today it’s a girl.

I am so disappointed, I’ve been crying. I know I will love this baby no matter what and have been praying for healthy. I’m just sad, I wanted a boy not another girl.

Now I have this incredible guilt to go with my sadness.