HELP my husband doesn’t know how babies are made!
I’m not sure where to post this but I’m just so frustrated I’ve had enough and I don’t know what to do!!
My husband and I have been TTC for 4 months now it’s not long I know.. the problem is he has a very very low sex drive and we only have sex maybe 1-2 times per month.
I’ve tried everything I can think of to change his sex drive and help him but every time it just ends up in a fight.
I cried myself to sleep last night because it was my most fertile day and I thought we would have sex because he knew it was my most fertile day (he has glow too) but he just went to sleep we have had sex only twice in 7 weeks.
I’m so so scared that I will never fall pregnant at this rate. I just feel
So upset over it because every time I bring it up he says I’m ‘putting too much pressure on him’
He tells people he wants kids and tells people we are trying. So I just don’t get it?
Help please I don’t know what to do and I can’t go on like this!! It’s hard enough barely having sex as it is but I thought he would at least try when we were trying for a baby.
Also he has NO erectile dysfunctions or anything.
EDIT: this has been going on for years he has always been like this I’ve tried getting dressed up, talking dirty, wearing sexy lingerie, sending him sexy photos, I’ve even tried just being sweet and loving with lots of cuddles etc nothing works. I’m not sure what else I can try?
When we have had discussions about it he just says just be loving to me??
He has been to a doctor and they have ruled out anything medical.
EDIT: I did think it could be depression for a while but the doctor has ruled depression out.. he does have some minor anxiety though.
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