Single after 7 years, new me, new sex, love or lust?!

Question

I’ve been single for only two months after being in a 7 year long relationship (I know, holy shit) I met someone immediately after the break up. He is the sexiest man I’ve ever seen in my life and I’ve never been more attracted to someone. My sex drive is literally through the roof, my sex style has changed, I’m incredibly submissive and will do anything with the man. And I think about him and having sex with him constantly. I will smell his cologne on my pillow and my breathing literally stops for a second. He is very obsessed with me, I’ve fulfilled everything sexually that he has ever wanted (he is incredibly rough and dominant). The emotional portion of our relationship has been intense from the very beginning to the point where we have to RESIST from saying I love you. What the fuck is going on here?! I am not naive, but I am very caught up and confused where this all came from. Is it love, or just lust? Things have settled down already (as in the initial intense sexual tension has settled, I used to literally get so wet I would have to change my underwear whenever I was just standing next to him). Our sex life is the most open, trusting and healthy sex of my life. Please give me some insight ladies. Real women lift others up! Peace and love.

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Maybe he's your unicorn. Just go with the flow and let things develop organically. Definitely make sure you've purged the old bf though. 7 yrs is a long time, but I know from my marriage that you can be emotionally checked out with a relationship before it ends. I was like that for 2 yrs before I filed for divorce.  Just do what feels right to you.

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At first i thought i was ready something i may have written 
I was in a similar situation... a week away from 8 years. Your situation seems a bit more physical though. At least that’s what most of the post mentions. Evaluate what other aspects of the relationship you enjoy. Sex Is the most important thing in a relationship but also the least important. Most in the sense that if the chemistry and desire isn’t there it won’t work and least in that if that’s all there is it won’t work either. 
My situation i Realized i wasn’t happy and couldn’t see myself having a future so i walked away 
A few months later i met someone in the same situation at different ends of the spectrum. Also a few months out of a 7 yr relationship. We wanted the same things from our partners but weren’t getting it. But also were not ready to jump into something right away. Causally dated one another for a few weeks, let our desires get the best of us and had sex. Then had sex anywhere and everywhere. It was amazing. I had never enjoyed it as much as i was. We were open and honest in that we didn’t want anything to come of it. So we did that for a bit then he told me that he’d caught feelings beyond the physicality of the relationship. And he wanted more. I was receptive initially so we took a step back. The time apart made us realize how much we enjoyed one another so much more the just the sex. The sex was amazing because we felt this deep immediate connection. There’s is little thing called communication and it turns out it really works lol 
We have been honest about everything from the beginning and it’s been the healthiest relationship and the happiest I’ve been.. ever 
Best of luck to you. We deserve it

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Lust. Literally everything you just said about him was physical and sexual.

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Eh, I felt “lust” about my husband and now I’m in love and have his baby :) but yea that’s definitely lust

Single after 7 years, new me, new sex, love or lust?!

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