Going down

Has anyone dated a guy who has a hard time keeping it up? He wants to do it but he over thinks it to much. I’m not gonna pressure him into anything he doesn’t wanna do. He will get really hard when I use my hand but lose it cause he over thinks stuff. He thinks oh she’s just leave me when it’s over or I’m gonna think it’s bad. Well he went down on me he said if he can’t give me the D then he is gonna pleasure me other ways. A while later he told me that was the first time he went down on a girl. We finally did it and he was so proud of himself for finally doing me. He had a big smile for the rest of the night.