I love my husband but his family....not so much!

Not that I don’t like my in laws, but I just don’t agree with the things they do or say. Their youngest child is 15 and they are letting her get a tattoo or piercing. It’s shocking to me because my parents would never let us do something like that 15. They would still get mad at me if I were to get a tattoo now at the age of 21!! The girl gets whatever she asks for but doesn’t even have good grades in school!!! My MIL she’s okay, she just like to know everyone’s business. My FIL, I was okay with him until my mom send them a picture of my nephew (he’s first daughters’ son) in a banana costume and he said he looked like a “condom” like who says that!! How could you turn a innocent picture into something sexual!!! That got me thinking I would never leave my future kids with him or MIL if I’m not there.