Help me get my groove back!

Tay

Alright y’all. I am almost 9 months postpartum and sex still hurts! Before I had my beautiful babygirl I was a freak okay? I LOVED sex with my husband. Now we’ve only tried to have sex 3 times and it hurts too much, so I just give him head. I miss my sex life, but I don’t know what to do! I had several 2nd degree tears and Idk if my vagina didn’t heal properly on the inside or what (I did get the approval from doctor to have sex) what’s some tips or things you all did to make sex feel good again? Help ya girl out because I need this drought to end!