I’ve been married to my husband almost 14 years. There is a huge age gap between us. 15 years. Our sex life is pretty much gone and I am tore up inside over it. I have talked to him, I’ve thrown hints his way. I will walk up and love on him even try and get him in the mood and he will walk away from me like I’m annoying him. I’m so tired of being horny all the time and taking care of myself just isn’t cutting it. I’m tired of crying myself to sleep of a night because he went to the couch so he doesn’t have to fool with me. I need my husband’s attention. I need sex!! I had a man at work yesterday tell me I was beautiful and that absolutely made my day. I don’t remember the last time my husband told me I was pretty. I’ve always been faithful to him, but now I’m dreaming about other men and that bothers me. What do you do when they won’t listen to you?