My husband told me that I’m not a mom yet. I’m 4 months pregnant. My mom passed away 15 years ago, and I’ve had a hard time with Mother’s Day since then, not having a mom or being a mom. And I always worked in childcare or maternity in the hospital, so I’ve always had to see other people celebrate and be happy, so it bums me out. I thought this year might be better, until he said that being pregnant didn’t make me a mom. It really hurt my feelings.