Dildo while virgin?

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So I’m 18 and a virgin i just recently bought a dildo and It took me like a few try’s until it didn’t hurt cause I’ve never had anything dick shaped in there I’ve only been fingered but my question is do you think when I do have sex for the first time will it hurt or no? And is it okay to use a dildo? I feel like every freaking guy(every guy ive talked to) thinks that a Virgin is gonna bleed and hurt during their first time 🙄 I believe practice makes perfect! Plus my sex drive is super high for some reason.

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probably not. if it didn't hurt with the dildo, I'm sure it won't hurt with the real thing either lol. and yes, it's completely fine to use dildos, why wouldn't it be?

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The only reason why anyone, not just virgins bleed is because 
A. Lack of relaxation. If your body is tense it can't provide our natural lubricant or expand 
B. Not aroused in the vaginal area enough for it to expand 
C. Not enough lubrication. Not having enough natural or artificial lubricant can cause terrible pain for both parties and can cause friction, breaking the skin.
About the hymen. It doesn't cover the entire opening and it's Definitely not required to break, tear, pop, or bleed.

It's a small film like area of skin around the vaginal opening. During intercourse the female body should be aroused enough to let the hymen expand, or dilate, for the man's penis to go in without ripping anything. More commonly this isn't done properly and the man forces his member in without taking proper precaution to prepare her. When it does tear, it simply bleeds like any abrasion and heals, leaving some unnoticeable scarring. It doesn't disappear, or fall out like some people used to teach. If your partner takes his time, uses extra lube if necessary, and eases his penis in a little at a time, going back and forth until you feel comfortable down there no damage will be done. It shouldn't hurt if he takes his time. Remember that with your dildo too. Even with toys you can use lube. You can try water based, might have to reapply, silicone based, which you'll l have to wash off with a PH balancing soap like Summers Eve wash (silicone based lubes are water proof but last a lot longer than water based). Or coconut oil which is a more natural approach. Never use coconut oil with a condom though, because the oils will break down the condoms structure and they break. I hope this helps!

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Good for you girl! Don’t have sex until you’re ready, a dildo is a great idea to get used to how it will feel and to find out what you like! And yes, you’re still a virgin even though you’ve used a dildo. Not everyone bleeds the first time!

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I never bled my first time of having sex or anytime after so its not true that every girl bleeds her first time.. Having a dildo is a good way to practice.

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of course is ok to use dildos. and if it doesnt hurt when you use it then it probably won't hurt when you have sex.

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If you bleed and it does hurt It means Lots pleasure. If you don’t feel anything but your hymen broke. Not much pleasure. 
(I went horse back riding for Girl scouts and mine broke. I didnt know until i got home and saw the little bit of blood.) 
It’s different for some girls it might be alot of Blood or little. But Like i said. It depends on the amount of pleasure you are in.

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I lost my virginity to a micro penis.  Didn't hurt, no blood.

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It may a little. When you do decide you are ready for the real use a water based lube.

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If you’re practicing before, it shouldn’t hurt your first time. Mine didn’t hurt the first time I was with someone because I had practiced and masturbated daily before. It’s normal and you wouldn’t be the only one to do it. You aren’t alone. :) Go for it! 
Although, size is a thing. If your dildo is on the small size then if you get with someone who is gifted in the downstairs department it MIGHT hurt. That didn’t happen for me. I’ve not been with anyone that has a jaw dropping, eye popping hose hanging between their legs. lol.

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