Is it wrong for me to not want to give my boyfriend a blowjob/handjob/etc sometimes?

Liz

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years. But he still gets mad if he tries to kiss me and as he puts it “woo” me and get me to basically just suck his dick and I won’t. He’ll literally pout and beg for like 10 15 minutes and when I just tells him no he gets so mad at me. Or it’ll be a situation where he’s trying for “foreplay” or to have sex and it’s the same thing, I just don’t want to. He also gets mad because he says I never want to do anything, but I tried telling him that if he hasn’t noticed I never want to when I’m not put into the mood first. Like I think that’s a pretty good reason. I’m not going to suck your dick for the fun of it, I have to be in the mood. And he also always tries at the worst time, right when I’m about to fall asleep, very first thing when we wake up, or like just right now when I was putting foundation on and he asks if we can like BOI do you not see me putting shit on my face? Like am I wrong for not wanting to? I dont know. He makes me feel bad about it I understand where he’s coming from sometimes but I dont know. 🤷🏼‍♀️😂