I've been wanting a baby for as long as I can remember, and my Fiancé whom I've been with for two years known each other 3, didn't really want children until he met me... we spoke about it earlier and I asked him what he would do if I announced that I was pregnant. And he was all like "Eh.. I mean. that would give us a reason to get our life in order and our shit straight, but it would ruin our life." Why dose he think it will ruin our life? why would he think that? I've wanted a baby so bad, for so long, and I can tell he's kinda considering the idea, but he's still scared. what would you say to your SO? I want to make sure he's ready, I want him happy with the news.. I mean the other night we named our children, and he started the conversation, and started coming up with names.. so I think he's coming around to the idea, but he's still super unsure..