Husband and I are coming up on 5 years of marriage and I feel like we have hit a major rut! I got off birth control ( which happened to really stifle my sex drive) back in January for health concern reasons, and it seems like it was around then that this switch kinda flipped. He has gotten way less interested in sex/has struggled with ED and is always finishing too fast. My sex drive has increased a bit since going off the pill and I thought it would mean more opportunities to be intimate, but it nearly seems the opposite. I'm just struggling with it. I know everyone goes through phases, but this one is frustrating and I don't know how we are supposed to get on the same page with everything again.