Trying to lose weight to get pregnant

Breanna • Mother to a boy. 😇 Angel mom 5/2/14😇Trying for rainbow baby

According to all of my charts I’m overweight because for my body structure and height I should be 129 to 140 in weight but I weigh 198.4... I’ve been trying to lose weight but nothing seems to work. I really want to have my rainbow baby but I can’t seem to be motivated enough. So please comment below what helped you or is helping you to stay motivated. All comments are welcome. Wednesday the 2nd made 4 years since I had a miscarriage and I’d like to think I’m ready to try again. Been trying for 3 years and I haven’t gotten pregnant yet. Everyone tells me it’s just not the right time but I’ve taken fertility pills, preseed and drank fertility tea but nothing. Tuesday I’m going to the doctor to find out what the reason is why I can’t get pregnant. But for now I’m gonna assume it’s my weight...so please tell me what worked for you