hormonal and picking baby names

I hate being hormonal... these fucking downs... just staring at a wall with tears welling up....why? because someone got mad at me for telling them I don't like the thought of naming my kid after a living relatives first name (my brother has a jr and it gets REALLY confusing being around them!!) but thinking about giving my son his Grandfather's middle name and that pissed them the fuck off to the point of them not even letting me explain the difference. then them bring up the point of me not naming my kid after a dead relative that I don't like the name of!!!! I liked how the grandfathers name sounded I DO NOT like how the dead one sounded!!! so he fucking yelled at me about it!! like yelling in my face about it!! wtf