Hi everyone, so my mum doesn't know about my bf, been "dating" for about 3months.

My mum suspects about me having a bf or gf, cause she thinks that I never had a relationship ( not true ) , my attitudes, and days ago I found this man (who knows my mum) on the street while I was with my bf.

I actually live with my mum, I will probably share flat in a few months but well that's another topic, so I'm always scared of saying things, simple and stupid things, and especially t my mum.

My mum always told me that if I ever had a partner I wouldn't have to hide, that s ok, that we could go home and she would try to be kind.

And now she keeps asking if I have a bf, i keep saying NOOOO, she's also worried about sex obviously, my mum got pregnant when she was 16/17 ( she aborted, but again that's another topic ), she shouldn't worry about that cause I'm super serious n this and we always use protection, although I would like to get n some kind of BC, but again that's another topic.

So as I have this weird attitude, problem, im super scared, I know I should tell her about it , and also s better so I don't have to be hiding and he can come t my home bla bla bla.

But idk how and what to tell her.

I planned to tell her about it in 2/4months ( after moving to somewhere else ) but maybe I should now.

My mum s like cool but im super scared.

My bf wants my mum to know too, and idk , also I don't want her to ruin my relationship, we cool everything's nice , he plans to go to another country n a while like me , also he's 10years older than me, but idk cause my situation/case s kinda weird and diff but idk how my mum would react I think not super bad.

Idk what to do.