so I want a baby so badly but I also want to work on improving my career and my husband wants to work on improving his. we both work jobs that while they aren't terrible we don't want to work them for the rest of our lives. we also both want to go back to college (though for me I am not entirely sure for what yet). I really want a baby too though and I know as a woman gets older it gets harder and harder for her to have a baby. basically I am divided between having a baby and furthering my career. ik it will take time to further my career and am afraid by the time I do so it will be too late to have a baby. I am wondering has anyone ever done both and if so how did it work out for you?