First of all I want to start by saying I’m not shaming anyone’s relationship or preference. I just want to know more and possibly understand the other side.

I see women on here and in my real life that have a big issue with their man/women watching porn or touching themselves when they are gone or while their S/O is I the shower. I’ve heard women say “well if he jerks it to other women then he will cheat on me” or “that MY dick now he’s not allowed to touch it”

I don’t understand that, my S/O touches himself and watches porn regularly when my sex drive is down. We have been together for Almost two years, and we have a baby on the way. He tells me what he watches (not like I care anyway) and he tells me where in the apartment he touched himself (not like I care, but 90% of the time on my side of the bed) it’s normal for men/women to touch themselves, when my sex drive is up and I’m ready every second of the day I will get home from work before my S/O and get off then when he gets home we will have sex. It is HIS dick and it is Her vagina if they want to touch themselves they can.

He has never cheated on me or thought of cheating on me. When he doesn’t get off for a few days he gets grumpy and hateful. I’ve never thought about leaving him over the porn he watches or that he touches himself. Everyone has a deep dark fantasy and watching porn can make that come true. Trying to control someone’s sexual urges and not allowing them to take care of those needs it like asking someone not to breath.

I much rather my S/O lay in our bed and watch porn and get off to it then, be miserable and either hide it or cheat on me because I can’t give him what he wants at the time.