Past 41 weeks? Refuse induction...

Christa
So I'm only 39+3 today and had my 39 week appt. of course they have me the talk about not letting their patients go past 41 weeks. I'm hoping to have him naturally before then but he'll come when he's ready. Most women in my family go 41 and several days. Anyone have experience with their doctors telling them this but choosing to refuse induction as long as all is well with mom and baby?