So I just got really butt hurt because my boyfriend and I were talking about future plans and he made a comment saying he will be the one decorating and picking out everything so I was like.. "I want to pick some things out too" and he told me that he would be buying everything. I asked him why and he's like because everything will be mine. I was like that's not fair though I wanna be apart of all of this too and he said "okay well you can buy everything you want and then put it in our spare bedroom and decorate it however you want" I then laughed and looked over and he wasn't even joking... it honestly kinda pissed me off because he was completely serious and so I said "you know when you say things like that it makes me not want to be with you especially when you talk about the future that only involves you" and he got really mad at me and said I'm a nock (basically meaning dumbass) for taking everything so seriously about the future.

We have been together for 3 years and this triggers me because he's made comments in the past about if I ever had his kids and I cheated he would take my kids away from me or if we ever get married and split hes not gonna help me out financially even if I stay home with our children. He also says everything will be in his name so I wouldn't be able to take any of it. Which I get but the fact that he basically admits he would leave me with nothing makes me not want to be with him. He's always saying selfish things like that.

Would this upset you too??? Or am I over reacting??

UPDATE: The only problem is that I might be pregnant 😭 (he finished in me during ovulation) I test in a couple days and may be considering abortion :(( which makes me really sad because I've already aborted one other time (16 years old) and promised myself I'd never abort again. It also makes me feel obligated to work things out with him.