Hi ladies..

So I just got married less than a year ago and we were together for 6 years before that. We only had sex for a couple years of the relationship and took a break from sex before we got married. I seem to remember sex being more passionate before we were married and now it seems kinda..blah. He doesn’t go after me like he used to- grab me passionately and kiss me and hold me down kind of thing. I’ve got a pretty freaky side when it comes to sex but I’ve been holding back lately because it doesn’t seem like he’s really that into it and I don’t like being the only initiator!! I want to feel pursued! I feel like maybe his confidence is low and that’s why?! I really want more in bed and there’s things I want to try but I’m too shy to ask because I feel like he will say no or won’t like it. Idk what to do... but sex lately has been really difficult for me to get into and fully enjoy and orgasms have been few and far between...