Is it normal?

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Is it normal to be afraid of getting pregnant? I want babies but I’m scared of the pain! Can someone give me advice? I keep telling myself that it’ll all be worth it in the end and I’ll have a lifetime of happiness I’m just so scared of the pain an the needles and something going wrong! My boyfriend also wants children but I’m afraid! I’m still semi young and I’ll have some more time to think about actually having one I just need advice.

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we are all scared. its ok.

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I think that this is pretty normal. But you can wait until you are more ready for it. While it is good to be educated on what can go wrong during pregnancy it isn't good to dwell on it. I am sure that your gyno can help ease your worries if you want to have children sooner rather than later.

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I feel the same way lol

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Not gonna lie to you it will hurt....a lot but a baby is worth it and the pain doesn’t last forever

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My desire for children surpassed my fear of needles and any medical concerns. Yes, you get poked and prodded a lot, but like you mentioned, you truly is all worth it. I'm no longer afraid of needles because I've had 3 children and I'm way past being scared. Do I like getting shots...nope! But I can handle it a lot better now. Don't let fear dictate your life...otherwise, you'll never experience all the joys in the world.

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If its labor you’re worried about, they have pain meds. I can assure you the actual pregnancy will cause more pain than the labor lol.
When I was pregnant with my first I had friends complaining about their babies being all in their rib Cage and shit😂 I was scared af lol. My son never did any of that. I had bad morning sickness the whole 9 months but my pregnancy was pain free. I had watched videos of child birth before hand and it scared me shitless 😂 but once I was actually in labor and full of meds I didn’t feel a thing. It’s easy lol

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