I've had so many horrible experiences already with my boyfriends family! We have one year old daughter and now I'm 4 months pregnant, we've been living here since March and we don't pay for rent but we offer to help with a lot (that isn't the problem) but his little sister gets on my nerves!😑 maybe it's just bc I'm pregnant but she's on summer vacation and does not lift a damn finger to clean! She's 12 and they don't discipline her to clean whatsoever, I'll clean in the mornings (bc the night before they leave their entire mess😑) bursa I'm cleaning and as well as throughout the day she makes another mess, I ask her to clean and her response is "it's so much work, I'm so tired"

Ugh, I don't mind helping bc we're for free and they do get tired from work but I'm still in school, I have my daughter and cleaning up after her mess every time, I also leave my daughter on the floor to clean and she's perfectly fine playing, then she picks her up and brings her to me and says "hers your mom, go with your mom" why does she do that? I have no idea but it's annoying especially when I'm cleaning up after her. Another thing, he has a 3 year old sister, she's always grumpy, no one knows why, my daughter will try playing with her but his sister will push her, slap her, punch her, throw her on the ground, and his mom will get mad at my daughter saying that she's trying to fight with his sister😑 my daughter also likes to have someone hold her hand and walk her around (even though she knows how to walk she just likes it) and the only one who will do it for a long time is his step dad, she'll go to him to walk her bc she knows he's the only one to do it, every time his mom says that she only wants "her grandpa" and no one else, she'll tell people that she doesn't love us (just us, her parents) and only loves her "grandpa" I just think it's rude and hurtful. Last thing, if my daughter falls and cries or hurts herself, his mom runs and grabs her before I can grab her and tries to smooth her, his step dad will try telling her to give her to me so I can soothe her and doesn't get used to other people soothing her, while she's crying I tell her "here I can grab her, can I see if she's okay" she completely ignores me every time and tries to calm her down, it's disrespectful, I think, bc in her mother and me or my boyfriend (her father) should be the only ones to soothe and calm her down, I feel she'll get too used to other people and not want us when she is hurt, she tries to take over a lot and act as though my daughter is hers.

Sorry for the rant, I needed to let t out! I've just been super annoyed of them lately!