Little sister from hell.

I just needed to rant bc I’ve literally had it with my sister. She’s about to be 12 and is ALWAYS starting with me. I’m 21 and had to move back with my mom for a little (me and bf/baby daddy broke up and I’m staying here until i get on my feet to move out alone) and things have gotten so bad between us. Last year she was literally like my daughter, always went everywhere i went and always wanted to be with me. Now she’s in middle school and has such an attitude and is so rude idk what happened. My son is about to be 2 and she always sits here and says shit like “I’m sorry you have a dumb mommy” or “you’re mommy is terrible i know” just stuff like that and me and My mother are always telling her you cannot say stuff like that to a child about their parent and how he’s absorbing everything right now and learning and you just can’t do shit like that. But she does it, almost every day. Then I’ll tell her no about something (like giving him candy or a sip of her soda etc) and she’ll still do it. She also steals everything. I haven’t bought myself anything pretty much since my son was born, it’s always been him him him. I finally bought myself a simple T-shirt and now it’s missing. Hmmmm. She swears she didn’t take it but she swore on my kid she didn’t take my one shirt and i found it on her bedroom floor with holes all in the sleeve. Every time i go to work i come home and something is gone from my room. Months ago my sister really wanted my son to get these pair of Nikes but they were $75 and i said he doesn’t need shoes that expensive but she said she wanted to pay half for them and it would be a late Christmas present. I gave in and we got the shoes. One time they were out in the living room and she tried taking them bc she was mad at me but i took them from her and told her it was his PRESENT and taking them from me isn’t hurting me, i can’t wear them. It’s hurting him bc they’re his. Today (like 2 months later from the incident) i go to put them on him, and the shoes and box is missing. It just pisses me off so much bc it’s like what are you going to do with a toddlers sneaker? You can’t wear them. Even if you paid for them, they were a gift. And for your nephew. I’m just so sick of her and her making comments about me being a terrible mother when i literally do everything in this world for my son and work so hard to be a great mom and i have her putting me down and telling my son I’m horrible and teaching him it’s ok not to listen to me. I understand I’m much older, and i honestly just don’t even talk to her and try not to be around her to avoid any conflict but it’s like she follows me and goes out of her way to create drama. My mom has talked to her numerous times and nothing changes. My mom is no longer with my stepdad (sisters dad) and my sister only listens to him, but my mom always makes up excuses saying my sisters going through a lot and she needs to be shown love and all this bs instead of sending her to her dads for a while which is the only thing i feel will change her. I’m currently 15 weeks pregnant and wanted to stay with my mom until the new baby is born but i don’t even know if i can do that. My sister stresses me out so much and makes this household so toxic bc of all the yelling and arguing.

*please don’t sit here and tell me to grow up or to be an adult bc I’m trying the best i can to make things better. I try to be nice but she always starts with an attitude and saying stuff to my son about me. So then i try to distance myself but she follows me or will scream it through my door. And I’m currently trying to move out, but i just wanted to stay at my moms to save more money since i do have a baby on the way and need to also look for an apartment. My children’s father left me unexpectedly and it all happened so fast i wasn’t expecting to be put in this position.

Not necessarily coming for advice , just wanted to rant.