help me orgasm!

So my bf and I have been dating for 3 years but he's never been able to make me finish either from intercourse or oral. I suspect intercourse alone will never be enough to do the job (unfortunately 😒) but I know that it could happen from oral. We used to only see each other twice a year because we lived on opposite sides of the country and only recently did he finally move back near me. I'm thinking this has also hindered our ability to get to really know each other intimately but now that he's back, I'm ready to get the ball rolling lol.

The thing is, neither one of us are very experienced so honestly we don't really know what to try or suggest or anything.

I know very well how to make MYSELF finish but Idk what I could say to help him help me lol.

Do you guys have any suggestions or tips on what he could try to make me finish through oral? Help ya girl out please lol