What is the point of sex if you can’t have an orgasm?

Question

I’ve been in a sexual relationship for over a year and it just won’t happen. I’m starting to feel like sex is a chore.

Answer

Could it be the guy? I never had an orgasm before my husband. I'd squirt, but never had a big o from penetration. I didn't even know what was going on and looked like a crazy person the first time I had a big O with my husband. It was a few months after we started being sexually active. It had never happened before and he's the only one it happened with. Never before him at all. It was the best feeling ever! His 🍆 just hits the right spot. And tbh, it's kind of annoying now that I'm pregnant lmao. I last 2 seconds 🙄😡

Answer

I was sexually active for seven years before I orgasmed for the first time. I enjoyed sex just fine up until then, so I viewed this as a new “superpower” to refine over the years.

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I have never had an climax, but I enjoy sex. To me it still feels good. I love the connection and closeness of sex. To me it's not all about that big O. It is fun and bonding.

Answer

Use a vibrator on your clit while you go at it.

What is the point of sex if you can’t have an orgasm?

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