So I'm bisexual...lesbian...anyway I'm me...figuring that out. Back on topic...

I have a girlfriend, and we've been together a while and we finally started to get to a point to where sex is an option. Are there any tips for going down on a girl and/or fingering? I HATE being eaten out, or touch there really at all (can't even do "it" myself... sexual trauma) so I don't know what feels good and works well for girls. This will be my first time with a woman, and we're both really excited for it. I wanna make it fantastic for us both, and her pleasure is my pleasure.

I'd love any advice I could get! I'm not sure if this is the right group for this, since I don't find hardly any lesbian posts here, so I'll take it down if it's the wrong group.