30yrs old ttc second baby, our first cycle - been feeling odd since 4/5dpo, I am now 9dpo

Bloating, feeling sick, and extremely full even after a few mouthfuls of food. Constipation and pains like period pains but they come and go, sore throat and thirsty more than usual, had a funny taste in my mouth a couple of times. AF due 05/19 which is the day we fly for our family holiday to Spain. I really am resisting testing to early to save the disappointment. But I want to test before we fly. Was thinking of testing 11dpo?