Hey ladies

Me and my bf have been together for 6 yrs long story short he has 2 kids from a previous relationship.

Were the ones who mainly feed them their meals.

If we dnt feed them before we drop them off at their mothers shell have a fit (which has happened only 2x cause they weren't hungry) also he never complains hes hungry here.

But she sends them home hungry every week so we have to make something at like 830-9pm

His son is on ADHD meds hes 12. Been complaining about stomach and headaches so we said wait it out so we can try to figure out before changing his meds.

He told me last week it stopped after about 3 weeks of it hurting (yes we brought him to the dr he said wait it out 2 more weeks and then see)

So Tonight she texts me

"He needs 6 meals a day maybe more"

I text her back

"What?"

Her - " he's been eating at least 6 meals and he hasn't been complaining about his head and stomach.. Idk gotta ask him if he's hungry and he will say so "

Me - " I make them 3 meals in 4 hrs from the time they get home from school till bed...snack at 10pm? "

Her - "he ate alot for dinner now he wants a eggs salad sandwich before bed.. So he needs an xtra snack around 9-9:30 "

Me - " well they are in bed 9 here and TVs off by 10"

Her - " Well if he's hungry that's why he's getting upset stomach and headaches"

Me - " it dont matter If his stomach hurts or not he can eat dinner say hes full and it still hurts so it's not from being hungry "

It pissed me off like I'm gonna make him a meal while hes in bed? yes we tried other meds and no meds no meds he couldn't focus in school and the meds hes on now Just started to hurt him 3 weeks ago after a yr in a half. his grades havent been better since starting it. ( not going off the meds this is what's best for him right now. besides for this set bck)

Advice ?