Sisters in Christ? Or Best Friends

Question

I have a rude sister in Christ who calls herself my best friend. Our husbands are close but she’s so mean. I don’t want to say everything I’ve done for her because I did it out of my heart & with the help of my Heavenly Father. I have been going through it for 5 years & not once have I ever been able to cry in her shoulder. I have been through many bad ministries. This last one every was great until the paster & prophetess start saying we were there spiritual children then start trying to control us. I’m like why can’t I confide in you like a sister & a friend that I need🤷🏾‍♀️ but instead the members are saying don’t trust them they are messy. I don’t want to know any of that & don’t want to talk to anyone! My walk with Christ is felling so hard😢
3yrs TTC no body to talk to and I’m getting hurt in ministry. I feel so lost

Answer

If I were you, I'd do some investigating until I found a church that I was more comfortable with. There's a gazillion other churches out there! I would recommend mine, but I always get the cold shoulder because I'm Mormon. But that's one of the things I love about my church. If I ever need anything, all I have to do is ask. Even if I just need someone to talk to, my visiting teacher is always there! And we have a group designed just for women, called the Relief Society who's mission is to serve others and provide relief for those in need. They were amazing when my Mom died, the way they stepped in and stepped up to help make the funeral planning process and the reception as easy as they possibly could for me. They helped out with the funeral, and they were there for me to cry on their shoulder, and they provided so much food! And these were complete strangers I'd never met before, because we were inactive at the time. Yet, they wanted to help me, and they knew what I was going through. And I'm fortunate I've had the opportunity to provide others with relief as well. Anytime someone asks me to prepare something, I'm all for it! Even if I don't know that person. But there's other churches who do similar things so, it's not just the mormon church. So yeah... lol around and find a church that you're happy with!

Answer

I agree with Sherrie, It might be time to find a new church. My church has a lot of people that are willing to listen, so I think it would be helpful for you to find a church like that. I also struggled to TTC. If you need to talk, you can message me ❤️

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