How did you ladies announce?


I will be 17 weeks along this Saturday... I’ve only told my mom and dad and siblings my husbands mom and siblings. The rest of the family doesn’t know. We haven’t had a baby in the family for 9 years and it’s all boys I will be having a girl. And since we have a family Get together this Saturday we figured we’d tell them we’re expecting and do a gender reveal all at once. I want it to be special I just don’t know how to announce it to them. This is our second.. needless to say people weren’t too Happy with our first pregnancy since we were 16& 17. At the time but we’re married live on our own and our eldest is now 10 so I hope this time around it’s a better reaction... advice ideas??!