okay so my biggest fear is coming true. my husband and I got told at our L&D; that my toddler won't be able to be in the room when I go into active labor, I had asked my mom who lives in another state if she would be able to come she said yes. I got a call from her that she won't be able to come till the second week of June and I'm being induced next week. I'm freaking out on being alone and since my husband doesn't get along with his family we don't have anyone to look after our toddler. I just feel sad I'll be alone and since we are new to the area all our friends are from out of state we really have no one. Have any of you that are second or third mom's ever given birth alone?