Hey ladies! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years in September. The beginning part of our relationship (first 6 months) we didn’t have sex. And possibly for the first year he was always extra sweet. Nice text messages, random I love you notes, random I love you because, or why you’re special to me notes. I even got a few letters and such. But after a while they slowly stopped coming. Now when I ask why do you love me or what do you love about me, I get a generic “it’s hard to put in words baby” which is fine and all. But I do a lot of sexual stuff for him, sexting, snap chatting pictures, writing out sexual stories for him. Whatever he wants really. They don’t do anything for me, I do them purely for him (we are both in college and don’t live together) I sometimes feel like I do a lot of that for him with nothing in return. Don’t get me wrong, I do not do all that looking for something in return. I do it because I love him and know he wants my help instead of porn or something. I also know he goes above and beyond to pay for me for everything and to spend time with me. About a month ago we talked and he told me I could stop writing stories since I didn’t like them, but it’s like he forgot all about that recently. I don’t exactly know how to bring this up without upsetting him. Am I overreacting? What do you all think? Thanks!