Unhealthy Hair help!!!!! 😭 shave or no?

Sam • Baby Girl coming 6/22/2018 💝

Deciding if I want to just start over. My hair was sooooo beautiful and about to the middle of my back and then redyeing it blonde messed it up so so so bad and I just ended up cutting it to my shoulders so I could get rid of the super dead weight. Its doable but it doesn’t curl like it should because of the damage. I’ve been using all of these repair products and it’s gotten a bit healthier but nowhere to where it once was. Should I grow it out and just keep trimming or just shave it and start over? I’m scared to shave it but I’ve seen some posts where ladies say shaving it made them way more confident. Any advice or personal stories? Pictures are welcomed!!! Thanks in advance 💕