My boyfriend wants me to start birth control but...

I hear a lot of women talk about how their birth control effects their mood swings. As someone who already struggles with mood swings, w/o taking any pill or medication, I am a little worried about starting birth control.

Right now my boyfriend and I just use condoms and he pulls out even with a condom on. We are going to move in together and discussing having me go on birth control. Of course he is all for me being on the pill but I just want some insight first. Do any of you feel a big difference in your hormone levels? Did you feel moody? Another big concern (really my biggest concern) is what if I forget to take the pill. I won’t ever forget a condom but I could forget a pill. I’ve never had to take anything on a daily basis before. I’d love some advice.

Thanks for all the insight and advice. There are just some things in this world that only women can understand. 😅

I hope y’all don’t have the wrong impression about my boyfriend. Thankfully he isn’t one of those jerks who just doesn’t want to use condoms. He just feels that birth control pills or iud’s etc are safer than condoms. I don’t know for sure about that. I’d love to hear your opinions and experiences about that as well. He actually wants to use both methods which I think it’s great that he wants to be extra careful but I’m hesitant for good reason. 😅 he just doesn’t know or understand why I am concerned.