Orgasm! Orgasm issues!

Ok so I really need help! So let me get straight to it, I’m 23 and NEVER had an orgasm. The crazy part is I don’t think it’s my boyfriend either. I’m trying to relax and enjoy, but it’s so hard for me to reach an orgasm and I’m starting to think somethings wrong with me. I’ve only had three sex partners and neither have made me reach an orgasm and it literally depresses me. I feel like It could possibly make my boyfriend insecure 😢 Like he feels great! Orally and During penetration but even when it’s oral the feeling is too intense for me that I have to push his head back! Ladies has anyone ever gone through this? I’ve had orgasmic feelings after sex before but I don’t think I ever have. It makes me feel insecure so any pointers? Advice? Or has anyone else gone through this or going through this?